With my sister getting married for the first time at age 49 we had all of the experiences we could. She had 2 showers and a bachlorette (SP?) party and of course a beautiful reception. She is a very selfless giving person, 20 some years ago as a singlewoman she adopted and raised two young children, for five years now she has worked at the night shelter each Monday night. And the amount of service she gives to others in one week could add up to amount of serving others do in a year. She found Jimmy online about a year ago they dated and fell in love. We had a busy week I picked up another sister at the airport and we went straight to the shower her work friends gave for her. webroke from decorating for her reception to have a silly bachlorette party. it was fun.