I went to Works for me Wed and got some great tips on love sweet love. Here is mine: a sure fire fun free way to kindle a new spark.
My DH (like many others I know) almost always comes and finds me to give me a hello kiss, I will lean over a steaming pot of something I'm cooking, years ago maybe a steaming diaper I was changing, (eewwww) a Lincoln log layout or pile of Pretty Ponies. (can you tell i like aliteration?)
I know I sometimes smile, but sometimes I barely notice. I love that he does this even if I take it perfunctually, but sometimes.... I pull him back for a longer than a peck kiss.( When the kids were younger and noticed ,they would say eeewww ( like i did about the diaper)or come between us to break us up, or for a hug too. Those are nice kisses . I know for a little while quite a few years ago we heard you should time your kisses for a 10 second count. We always lost track of the count (I think that was the point).
then if you are still not distracted from what ever else you were doing.... pull him back for a 3rd time.. it gets to be playful and fun. One of 'our songs' through the years was This Kiss by Faith Hill and I tend to think it stems from this tip:)